What to Do When You Accepted a Job Offer…Then Changed Your Mind

The good news: You have a new job in Miami Lakes and it starts in two weeks. The bad news: Now, you’re having second thoughts. Should you walk away from the offer or continue full speed ahead?

First, know you’re not alone. Many candidates have been in the same situation you find yourself in. At the interview, you’re sure the job was the right fit for you. But now that you’ve had some time to think about the duties, the commute, the salary, the benefits, and other factors, you’re reconsidering.

What should you do?

Before you pick up the phone or send an email, make sure you truly want to walk away from the offer. Think about the position and what’s holding you back. Is it something to do with the distance you’d have to travel, the hours you’d work, the salary you were offered or the job duties?

Whatever the case, determine why you’re uncomfortable and having second thoughts. That way, you can go to the HR manager or supervisor and have a discussion about whether any of these issues are negotiable. Perhaps you can negotiate a bump in pay for less vacation days. Keep in mind, at this point, you’re going to have to make some concessions as well to make it work.

If, however, you know in your heart, the position just isn’t right for you, how can you decline the offer without burning bridges?

  • First, reach out to your contact at the company as soon as possible. Don’t wait another week or the night before your start date to tell the employer that you’re not going to be there.
  • Second, be prepared to offer a reason. If you’re not sure the reason – it’s just a gut instinct – then tell the manager that after careful consideration, you realized the position just isn’t a good fit for you.
  • Third, be prepared for some tough questions. The manager may be upset and ask why you accepted the job in the first place. Don’t get defensive or emotional. Understand that you’re putting the company in a tough spot and be professional and diplomatic.
  • And finally, send a follow up note after you declined the offer thanking the manager again for the opportunity.

Going forward, next time you’re offered a job opportunity, don’t accept it on the spot. Instead, take a few days to think it over and consider the pros and cons. That way, next time you do accept an offer, you can really mean it.

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